Polygammy it is...the major disturbance clouding my mind these few days...
Nope3...not for my marriage, just sympathizing someone that i pretty much know...
I even know all 3 parties...the bride,the groom whom re-groom himself and the bride that re-grooming the groom for d second time...
If only a woman feels another woman's heart...while man stop taking advantage of this missing connection between the 2 women's heart...to their advantage....
This does not mean im going against wat has been legalized by the religion...in some circumstances,especially when we reflected sirah of our prophet,Muhammad (pbuh), it happened in a manner/reason acceptable to our logic...thts enough for me to justify my arguments and cant agree more... But nowadays, most cases are mostly of opportunist, tht felt himself stable&perfect (from his definition) and thot has brought completeness enough to his family until he spend his "richness" sponsoring additional human beings (of his desire) entering his life and not realizing hearts he breaks... wth that presence of new creatures tht definitely expecting special treatment as she is just undergoing new exciting life chapter... Does justice easily can exists???
If only a man put a thot on the package he is coming with...the resposibilities he gotto undertake to cater the physical and emotional needs of the family he has built and be together wth, all these while..he should be having NO extra time sowing seeds of hope to others...if he cud put himself as a child of a "wrecked" family, how pain it cud be....he wud have just sacrificed his "so called needs" coz the feelings of those kIds are just soooo precious to waste for such immatute adulthood conflicts...
Disclaimer:- purely my innervoice tht speaks to my mind tht i put down in written to just share....
To be cont...
