3/5 iReaD review

Remember those books i purchased last week?...i only managed to read 3 out of 'em all. And even 1 of it i just read half-way through and i gave it to my newly wed old friend since the content is very related to those whom just started their marriage chapter. Synergy MEdia has done great job in its publicatin of those marriage series.
Moving on,here is something i wanna share from one of those books.

Its something about silent language...especially for couple who lives together.

Based on the book, there are 3 types of "other ways" to convey ur message rather than VERBALIZING 'em.
Man is verrryyyy good in this im sure!...no?..:P
And the worst part is when they actually expect people to understand more than what they expressed...tak aci kan...haha...


Hence,esp ladies,we got to crack our heads in interpreting the hidden meaning between the lines.difficult huhh!;)...

Hopefully by educating ourselves wth some theory behind this silent language, we can be a better reader of "between lines messages" :p

here goes the categorization...
1) Tinesthesis-body language, facial expression, heads movement.
2) Paralinguistic-non-verbal expression via conversation.i.e. voice intonation,pace of conversation, tune and voice pitching.
3) Artifactual- Signaling thru your appearance. The dressing,make-up,scent and etc2...

HEAD - HEART - &- HONESTY...THE 3 big-H

Sometimes rambling can be a soothing therapy...At times when the environment is not tolerating your thoughts and lending ears are wayy toooo expensive!...Here is the place...

HEAD, HEART & HONESTY... these are the 3 main pillars... good speeches, nice words are the "all-time" good to listen ear candies... but its all WORTHLESS when they do not being tagged wth these "3-Haish-es"...

In every words you say, every nice speeches you crafted out and verbalized, they are all of no point if those being articulated without conveying the real message that u have in your head. Anyhow, having head alone is also risky... especially in expressing SINCERE thots coz what sounded SINCERE in your head not the same as what other people perceived when they listened...hence, an element of HEART has to be factored in...

GOOD words speak by themselves. It transpire what u have in MIND in an acceptable manner without changing its real meaning and it takes HONESTY to reach to that 3H level of conversation.

feel-good-feeling is just destroying!

i just cant say it... its just soooo complicated and verrry stressfulllll...i just dont understand why some people just feel that they care about every single details of EVERY-SINGLE-THING, but actually they ARE not!...they feel like they do, but in reality they DON'T!... THE BEST way to get the bestEST feedback about yourself is by asking your ENEMY!... self "feel-good-feeling" alone is never enough. You can just feel of everything BEST in the world is YOURSELF... and that value-less "over-high self esteem" will get you no where... that attitude will only get u the comfort of ur own self-built comfort zone...

I just cant tolerate those chaps...

MYREADINGS vol.1- Love your kids, raise them disease free by OBHS

retail therapy continues...
i gotto curb this as this habit of me is worsening. Talking bout habit, it reminds me of this poster that been posted at several locations in SLB warehouse tht i visited just now. "Excellent is not an ACT, its the HABIT"...short wordings but DEEP meaning...anyways, i grabbed few books this time around after my good massage with IDA at Tanamera...She indeed a good therapist. TOO BAD for all these while wth my previous 17 sessions, i never gotto try her until my 17th just now...and i concluded she as the BEST there!...

Popular bookstore, the only store in our neighborhood always caught me and robbed my pocket with their catchy display. This time around, after quite some time i haven't drop by (for the sake of avoiding myself frm buying more and more BOOKS that in the end i just managed to read some and flipped thru the remainingS), i got caught again... this time what attracted me are their Oak Better Health Series and SYNERGY MEDIA books...

lemmey share the sneak preview of their front pages in this post and shall be sharing the remaining in my postS to come...

Anyway, if u also easily get attracted like me, do drop and pick yours...before its too late. coz u might b missing this publication batch since i found out these are all worth reading. (based on my prejudice opinion after just few pages of flipping thru :p)